Is Social Networking part of your everyday life? If your'e like most, the answer is yes. Although you may not realize it, Social Networking might could have some hidden effects on you that may have never crossed your mind according to blogger Singyin Lee. Lee did some scientific research on this topic and found some pretty interesting information.
5 Effects Social Networks Have On You
1. Photo-Taking = Eating Disorder
Lee believes that food photography could be a hidden sign of eating disorders. Many times you will be scrolling through your news feed and find the delicious meal someone is about to indulge in. Although for some people this may be a one time thing, for others it could be an every day occurrence. In my opinion I do believe it is okay to post pictures of food, but just every now and then. Getting likes or comments on a photo of food could make one feel they get attention for it, which could possibly lead to believing it is a necessity.
2. Online-Offline Connections
Lee's research states that teenagers that have an online connection with their parents such as Facebook or twitter seem to have a better offline connection with them. I personally agree with this. Teenagers today usually find Social Networking to be an important part in their life, having a connection with parents on any social network betters the parent-child connection by having more than one way to connect. Along with this, Lee's research also finds that having an online connection with you marital spouse doesn't give the same effect. With so much access, partners have more opportunity to find unwanted information of their spouse. Although it may be harmless information, it can sometimes lead to separation or divorce. I personally agree with this as well. Social Networking gives spouses or partners access to a world of temptation which for some, may be hard to resist. With that, many spouses or partners may feel that they have to be on watch of their significant other all the time and soon something little or harmless could be created into a much bigger problem in their relationship.
3. Love Yourself, Love Your Social Network
Lee's research has found that Social Networking requires a lot of narcissism to be an active user. "Facebook is a mirror, and Twitter is a megaphone" meaning that for people who what their opinion to be heard, typically young adults in college, Twitter is better for them, and for people who want to create a "portfolio of their life choices", typically middle-aged adults, Facebook is better for them. Personally I fully agree with the scientific research. Why? Here's an example: If you were to put a picture on Facebook/Twitter and got about 5 likes or comments, you would begin to automatically feel negative about your post or yourself. But, if you were to post a picture on Facebook or Twitter and quickly got 30+ likes, you would automatically have a positive feeling about yourself. Although you may not realize you feel positive or negative, it still usually happens.
4. The Harmful Side of Facebook
Researcher Larry Rossen, has found that teenagers who are on facebook tend to have more "narcissist tendencies" and are also more prone to depression, lower grades, psychological disorders, and future health problems. With that, on a positive note, teenagers learn how to show "virtual empathy" to online friends and how to socialize behind the scenes. I completely agree with Rossen's research, Social Networking has such a huge toll on teenager's life, along with adult's life, that anything that may go wrong on Social Networking could affect them majorly.
Rossen has also found that parents are losing direct communication skills with their children. Many parents today have lost idea of asking their child where he or she might be and instead using technology such as apps or Social Networks to conclude their location. Personally I agree with Rossen's research as I have watched the transition with my own eyes. Parents can now put apps on cars or cellphones that determine their child's exact location. While these apps or online networks may come in handy in a tragic time of need, the parent-child communication skills are lessened by these technological tools.
5. Of Self-Esteem, Facebook and Photos
Researcher Madison of University of Wisconsin, has found that a quick 5 minute check of Facebook profiles can significantly boost the self-esteem of users and that photos are the biggest drive for one's self-esteem. I personally agree with Madison's research, as I said earlier, having a number of likes or comments on a photo you have posted automatically leads you to having a positive feeling about yourself.